Reflection/Perspectives

Don’t air your grievances

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Complaining will just make you feel worse about yourself. There is no way for you to improve your situation, and there never was. Words like “complain”, “moan”, and “groan” imply the presence of negative emotions, which hinder decision-making abilities. They will simply make you feel worse in general. You’ll never be satisfied with who you are, what you do, or the outcomes of your life experiences. If a person tends to frequently moan about their situation, it is conceivable that this conduct will hurt their immediate surroundings. Stop murmuring nasty words, crying, or moaning the moment you realise you’re doing it. Everyone who has a habit of complaining should attempt to change their behaviour. Don’t be the one who ruins the mood and wastes everyone’s time by pointing the blame somewhere else. Don’t let rage and resentment consume you. Remove yourself from the bad people in your life. Having a grudge and behaving harshly all the time is bad for one’s health.

Until now, I’ve always been the kind of man that expresses my true feelings at all times. Individuals seem to be more likely to criticise the flaws in the character of others than applaud their successes. People will rather engage in backstabbing and gossip than study and seek knowledge that might help them advance in their careers. This is due to the fact that individuals like the attention that these activities give.

For example, if a student disagrees with the tactics and directions I offer, they should feel safe approaching me with suggestions rather than complaining to someone who may or may not be able to help or find a solution. Instead of yelling, they should provide solutions. But, as a teacher, I try to see the bright side of things, and I am aware that, despite what I have accomplished so far, I should take advantage of this chance to analyse how well I have done going forward in light of what I have accomplished so far. My students do not always grasp what I am attempting to express, no matter what I say or do. In most situations, there is a substantial gap between their expectations and my expectations. They are supposed to be more accessible than ever before because of their new position as graduate students. This may be accomplished in one of two ways: just dropping by an office or booking an appointment. It’s just clearing up any misunderstandings and finding helpful lessons to take away. A PowerPoint presentation concludes learning, and all that is needed of a student is to read the notes on the PowerPoint. Real learning requires a large amount of effort on our behalf, in the form of both time and effort, to establish a firm foundation of knowledge on the subject being studied.

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